Perfection tells us to polish every flaw. Wholeness tells us to gather every part.
The Tyranny of Perfection
Perfection is rigid, external, and exhausting. It says: You are only enough when flawless.
The Invitation to Wholeness
Wholeness is flexible, internal, and liberating. It says: All of you belongs — the polished and the messy, the certain and the lost.
How to Practice Wholeness
- Welcome contradictions: strength and vulnerability can coexist.
- Befriend mistakes: they are evidence of living, not proof of failure.
- Use integration, not elimination: healing is weaving, not erasing.
Key Takeaway
Growth is not about becoming perfect. It’s about becoming whole — and that is always enough.
